Saturday, November 1, 2025

The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins - A Review

This series moves so fast it basically grabs you by the collar and yells, “You’re not sleeping tonight.” The pacing and nonstop action keep you completely hooked, and the stress is real. You’ll find yourself reading “just one more chapter” until it’s suddenly 2 a.m. and your alarm is silently judging you. Sleep? Forget it. The books don’t care—you’ll tear through the entire series anyway.

If you haven’t read The Hunger Games yet, now is the time. Seriously. It’s never too late to join the emotional chaos. Perfect for young teens, reluctant readers, or anyone who loves a story that refuses to let go. Resistance is pointless.

★★★★★

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Tuesday, October 21, 2025

The Diet Dropout's Guide to Natural Weight Loss: Find Your Easiest Path to Naturally Thin by Stan Spencer, PhD - A Review

This is a refreshing and practical approach to weight loss—perfect for anyone tired of fad diets, miracle foods, or gimmicky supplements. Dr. Stan Spencer focuses on building real, lasting habits instead of offering quick fixes, making this an ideal guide for first-time dieters or anyone ready to make sustainable lifestyle changes.

The book emphasizes the importance of understanding why we gain weight, how our bodies respond to food, and what it truly takes to maintain a healthy weight. Dr. Spencer provides tools to manage emotional eating, calm cravings, boost metabolism, and improve nutrition and exercise habits. He even walks you through creating a personalized weight-loss plan tailored to your own abilities, preferences, and lifestyle.

I especially appreciated that this isn’t a “one-size-fits-all” approach. Instead, the book empowers you to take control, make gradual changes, and develop habits that stick. The included recipes and practical tips make healthy living approachable and realistic—no gimmicks, no shortcuts, just solid guidance.

While it may not introduce groundbreaking concepts, the clarity, structure, and encouragement make it a valuable resource. For anyone looking to transition from dieting frustration to sustainable, self-directed change, this book is an excellent companion.

(Disclosure: I received a copy of this title from NetGalley and the publisher for review purposes. This is my honest opinion.)

★★★★☆

From My Archives: May 16, 2018

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Monday, October 13, 2025

Nothing to Fear (Romantic Suspense, Book 4) by Karen Rose - A Review

In this romantic suspense thriller from New York Times–bestselling author Karen Rose, danger, secrets, and survival collide.

Dana Dupinsky, director of an inner-city women’s shelter, is fiercely dedicated to protecting abuse survivors—and the many secrets that keep them safe. Some secrets are new names and new lives, while others are deeply personal truths Dana has buried for years. Love has never been part of her plan, especially when her work puts her and a child in mortal danger.

Ethan Buchanan is a security expert shaped by war and loss. Trained to hunt enemies in the Afghan desert, he’s now determined to find the woman who kidnapped his godson. Falling for Dana is the last thing he expects—but her presence quiets the ghosts he carries, even as her guarded nature sparks his instincts. When a ruthless killer begins weaving a deadly web of revenge with a stolen child at its center, Dana finds herself next on the list.

My Thoughts:
I’ve now read several books by this author, and all had solid plots and strong character foundations. Unfortunately, both were dragged down by an extremely unrealistic death toll. Ridiculously so. It felt like every new character introduced was only there to be killed off.

That excess took away from the suspense and emotional impact, making the story feel padded with shock-value deaths instead of meaningful development. It’s a shame, because the outline and premise were genuinely good—but the ridiculous body count kept this from being a higher-rated read for me.

★★★☆☆

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Saturday, October 11, 2025

Forgiveness - Quote

"To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” 

Lewis B. Smedes


Thursday, September 11, 2025

Quick! Company's Coming! (From the Archives 2008)

The phone rings! "Hi, thought we'd drop by for a minute......." You never hear a word after that, do you? Just lists of things that HAVE to be picked up and cleaned QUICK! Here are some helpful tips:

  1. Laundry baskets are your friends. Run through the house and pick up everything that is out of place and toss it in the basket! Then stash until the guests leave.
  2. Pour bleach or Pine-sol down your kitchen sink drain. Makes it smell like you’ve been cleaning everything.
  3. Put out fresh towels in the Bath and Kitchen.
  4. Swish the toilet and wipe down the vanity.
  5. Kids are helpful. Use them. Bribe them with ice cream.
  6. Cram the dish washer as full as it will go.
  7. Give yourself a pat on the back.
  8. Spray scented oil or air freshener in the cold air return.
  9. Light some candles.
  10. Sweep the front entryway.
  11. Make coffee.

Tuesday, September 9, 2025

Magic Hour by Kristin Hannah - A Review

Magic Hour is a moving and emotional story about a young girl overcoming years of isolation and trauma, and the woman who helps guide her toward love, trust, and family. Kristin Hannah delivers strong character development and an interesting, well-constructed plot that keeps readers engaged.

The story follows a girl who had been living in a cave, known as “The Wolf Girl.” She initially howls like a wolf and has a pet wolf, showing both her physical neglect and emotional struggles. A well-known psychiatrist, who is also the sister of the local sheriff, is called in to help her. Through patience, care, and love, the girl begins learning to speak, trust others, and navigate the world beyond her isolation.

The book explores themes of family, friendship, trust, and the healing power of love. While I found the girl’s narration challenging at times and felt the story might have been smoother without it or with a more standard speech pattern, the emotional depth and character arcs made the read worthwhile.

Overall, Magic Hour is a heartfelt story about overcoming adversity, the bonds that shape us, and finding love and trust in unexpected places.

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 

Monday, September 1, 2025

Paid in full

After living what I thought was a “decent” life, my time on earth ended, and I found myself in a courtroom. The prosecutor—Satan—stood, his voice sharp and accusing, listing every lie, every theft, every wrong I had ever done. With each word, shame weighed heavier, and I sank in my seat. I couldn’t even look at my Attorney sitting silently beside me.

Then He stood. My Attorney—gentle, kind, familiar. It was Jesus.

He approached the Judge and said, “Yes, she has sinned. She deserves punishment. But I died on the cross so she could have life. She belongs to Me. Her name is written in the Book of Life, and no one can take her from Me.”

The gavel struck. “Case dismissed. Paid in full.”

Satan ranted, but it didn’t matter. Mercy had won. Justice had already been paid.

No matter our past, if we’ve accepted Christ, our debt is erased. The verdict is always the same: freedom, forgiveness, and eternal life.

Blue Dahlia (In the Garden, Book 1) by Nora Roberts - A Review

Blue Dahlia was an enjoyable read overall, though it didn’t fully resonate with me. While many readers rate it highly, I felt it landed closer to a three-star experience for my tastes. The plot had a solid premise but could have benefited from deeper development, and some of the quieter, everyday conversations slowed the pacing for me.

One of the book’s strongest points was the character development, especially the friendships between the women, which felt warm and authentic. Those relationships were what kept me engaged. There were moments that felt a bit drawn out, and I would have loved to see more tension and momentum rather than extended internal reflections.

The ghost storyline was an interesting idea, though it remained more of a background element in this first book and left several questions unanswered. With a bit tighter editing, this story might have felt more complete on its own.

While this isn’t one of my favorite Nora Roberts novels, it did keep me interested, and I found her later books in the series more engaging. Overall, it’s a pleasant start with a strong sense of friendship and the promise of more to come.

★★★☆☆

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From my archives – June 29, 2018

Distant Shores by Kristin Hannah - A Review

Distant Shores is a relatively short, emotional read about a wife and mother who has lost herself over the years and must now make difficult decisions about the direction of her future. Kristin Hannah delivers solid character development, though throughout the book I kept feeling as though something was missing.

One of my favorite aspects of the story was the relationship between the main character, Elizabeth, and her stepmother—it felt genuine and heartfelt. As a whole, the novel explores themes many mothers can identify with: sacrificing personal dreams while raising a family and later questioning who you are once that role changes. The story stirred up many emotions for me.

That said, I didn’t love every aspect of the book. I struggled with the direction the story took and didn’t care for the path Jack’s character followed. I also found Elizabeth’s nickname distracting. There were several elements I didn’t enjoy, yet the underlying message still resonated. Ultimately, both Elizabeth and Jack needed to rediscover themselves before they could truly find each other again.

While this may not be one of Kristin Hannah’s strongest novels, it stayed true to her style. I enjoyed the ending and appreciated the reminder that it’s never too late to pursue something for yourself. Women of a certain age will likely see parts of themselves reflected in Elizabeth’s journey.

★★★☆☆

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From the Archives - June 29, 2018

The Fallen (Memory Man Series, Book 4) by David Baldacci - A Review

The Fallen was an enjoyable read, though not what I would consider David Baldacci’s best work. While the central mystery was intriguing, the story was weighed down by numerous unnecessary details and side plots that didn’t always add much to the overall narrative.

That said, one aspect I genuinely appreciated was the continued development of Amos Decker. In this installment, he becomes more human and more likeable, forming deeper relationships that add emotional depth to his character. This growth made the story more engaging and helped balance some of the pacing issues.

Overall, while the novel had its flaws, I still enjoyed it and found it worth reading—just not a standout entry in the series.

★★★☆☆

Friday, July 25, 2025

Surprising Lord Jack (Duchess of Love Book 2) by Sally MacKenzie - A Review

This is a fast, light, and thoroughly enjoyable read—perfect as a transitional book between heavier or longer novels.

The story follows Jack Valentine, the third son of the famous Duchess of Love, as he becomes entangled in a dangerous mystery involving a serial killer targeting women of questionable reputation. When he becomes involved with Frances Hadley, he may have inadvertently put her in the killer’s path. The suspense is engaging, though I suspect reading the first book in the series would provide even richer context and deeper character backstory.

Where this book really shines is in its playful, witty romance. Frances is charming, clever, and determined—she disguises herself in breeches and sets out for London, refusing to let anyone stand in her way. Jack’s reluctant involvement leads to humorous situations, banter, and unexpected moments of tenderness that keep the story light and fun.

A quick, entertaining read with a touch of danger and romance—perfect for readers looking for a light, engaging diversion.

★★★★☆

(I received a copy of this title from NetGalley and the publisher for review purposes. This is my honest opinion.)

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Thursday, July 10, 2025

Angel Falls by Kristin Hannah - A Review

Angel Falls is an emotional and ultimately enjoyable novel centered on a woman whose life changes instantly after a tragic accident leaves her in a coma. As her family waits and hopes, long-buried secrets begin to surface—raising the question of whether love and relationships can survive once the truth is revealed.

Mikaela appears to have a beautiful life: a loving physician husband, two children, and a deep love of horses. When a riding accident leaves her comatose—an event witnessed by her young son—her husband is forced into an impossible role. He must balance his medical knowledge with hope, support his children, and face the terrifying uncertainty of whether his wife will ever wake up.

The novel starts beautifully, with a premise full of emotional potential. About halfway through, I found myself fully invested and eager to keep reading. Unfortunately, as the story progressed, some of that momentum faded. While the themes were familiar, I felt the book didn’t fully capitalize on the strength of its premise. At times, the emotional pull felt a bit forced, as though the author was trying too hard to tug at the heartstrings.

That said, this is still a good story—just not a standout one. Kristin Hannah consistently delivers meaningful messages, and Angel Falls is no exception. The novel offers thoughtful reflections on love, sacrifice, and recognizing the blessings in our lives before they’re gone.

I did struggle with certain aspects of the story, particularly Mike’s selfishness and the role of secrecy. While I understand the theme that real love goes beyond infatuation, I’m not a believer in keeping secrets, and that element worked against my enjoyment. Still, I appreciated the exploration of how Mikaela’s difficult upbringing shaped her choices and relationships.

Overall, Angel Falls is a light, emotional read with solid messages and a familiar warmth typical of Kristin Hannah’s writing. While it isn’t a favorite, I did enjoy it—and Kristin Hannah remains one of my favorite authors.

Final rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️ (3 stars)

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From my archives June 29, 2018

Tuesday, July 1, 2025

Snowed In (Southern Comfort #3) by Sarah Title

Snowed In is an unexpectedly delightful and entertaining novella—funny, witty, and steamy. It’s full of humorous banter, charming moments, and lighthearted romance, making it a perfect palate cleanser between heavier reads. I only wished it had been a little longer!

The story follows librarian Maureen O’Connell, who finds herself crying into the ice cream case after a breakup—only to meet Gavin Fraser, a guy hot enough to melt the Rocky Road, flirting with her in the freezer aisle. When a snowstorm strands her at Gavin’s after just one date, sparks fly, and what starts as lust might just turn into something deeper.

Short, sweet, and full of fun—don’t miss this one.

(I borrowed this from my library, this is my honest review.)

★★★★☆

From my archives: June 5, 2018

Thursday, May 1, 2025

Every Day Is a New Shade of Blue: Comfort for Dark Days from Psalm 23 by David Roper - A Review

Every Day Is a New Shade of Blue is a deeply encouraging and comforting study of Psalm 23. David Roper brings clarity and practical application to these beloved scriptures, helping readers find hope, rest, and encouragement even during life’s most difficult moments.

This book is a wonderful resource for anyone experiencing grief, trials, or despair. Drawing from Scripture, thoughtful insights, and the author’s own experiences, it beautifully illustrates the heart of God as the Good Shepherd and encourages readers to trust Him fully.

I highly recommend this book—it would make a meaningful gift for anyone in need of comfort and inspiration. You will truly enjoy it.

(I received a copy of this title for review purposes, free of charge, from NetGalley and the publisher. This is my honest opinion.)

★★★★★

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From my archives: May 31, 2018

The Shelter of God's Promises: Finding Comfort, Confidence, and Hope During Uncertain Times in God's Unfailing Promises by Sheila Walsh - A Review

I highly recommend The Shelter of God’s Promises for any church or home Bible study group.

I received the e-galley of the participant's guide from Thomas Nelson Publishing through NetGalley for review purposes (note: I did not receive the DVD). This Bible study package includes a participant's guide, leader's guide, and other materials, making it a wonderful, accessible option for hosting a group at a reasonable price.

Sheila Walsh thoughtfully presents God’s promises—Jesus, Provision, Peace, Confidence, Love, Grace, Hope, Strength, More, and Home—in a way that brings comfort and peace. In a home group setting, participants can share personal experiences and reflect together on the faithfulness of God’s promises, making the study interactive, meaningful, and deeply encouraging.

I truly enjoyed this study and believe it would be a blessing to anyone looking to grow in faith and confidence in God’s Word.

Disclosure: I received a copy of this title for review purposes, free of charge, from NetGalley for my honest review.

★★★★★

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From my archives: May 11, 2018

Monday, April 21, 2025

How to Heal Hashimoto’s by Marc Ryan

This book is an excellent, highly readable resource for anyone struggling with Hashimoto’s disease. Marc Ryan explains how to identify which systems in your body are most affected, and then how to begin the healing process—system by system—before moving on to vital organs. His approach is thorough, practical, and easy to follow, making a complex subject much more approachable.

Most people know Hashimoto’s primarily affects the thyroid, but Ryan emphasizes that it is truly a body-wide condition. Fatigue, brain fog, weight gain, hair loss, and constipation are only part of the picture. Anxiety, depression, acid reflux, blood sugar imbalances, food sensitivities, and organ dysfunction are all connected through vicious cycles of system breakdown. This book helps readers understand how these interconnected issues develop and provides actionable steps to restore balance.

Through an autoimmune diet, lifestyle practices like meditation and qi gong, and other natural interventions, Ryan teaches how to transform these cycles into positive momentum toward healing. If you’re dealing with Hashimoto’s, this is a valuable guide to take charge of your health and reclaim your life.

Well-written, informative, and practical—an essential resource for anyone managing Hashimoto’s. Four stars.

★★★★☆

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Thursday, March 6, 2025

The CEB Student Bible by Common English Bible - A Review

The Word of God is always powerful, and the CEB Student Bible delivers it in a way that feels fresh, accessible, and highly relatable for young readers. I was provided a review copy from the publisher, and even from the small portion I reviewed, this translation immediately stood out. Seeing familiar verses phrased differently than in traditional versions is enlightening, and this edition makes the Scriptures feel approachable without losing their depth.

This Bible is an excellent choice for confirmation classes, new members, or graduation gifts. It is packed with valuable features, including:

  • Introductions to each book by leading biblical scholars, highlighting themes, key points, and quick facts

  • Over 350 articles by youth ministers exploring difficult topics and connecting Scripture to the modern world

  • Discussion questions, group activities, and “Reading Differently” exercises

  • Prayers and reflections from young people involved in Emory University’s Youth Theological Initiative

  • Helpful maps and a 4-page map index

The CEB Student Bible encourages young disciples to engage with God’s Word thoughtfully, helping them form a deeper spiritual connection while exploring personal and social holiness. Its modern, youth-friendly tone ensures it resonates with teens and young adults alike.

Verdict: A readable, spiritually enriching Bible that guides young readers into a deeper relationship with God. Highly recommended. Four stars.

Disclosure / Disclaimer: I received a copy of this title for review purposes, free of charge, from NetGalley and the publisher. This is my honest opinion.

★★★★☆

From my archives: May 16, 2018

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Saturday, February 15, 2025

A Prayer for Chip

Lord,

Thank You for the gift of Chip.
Thank You for the small life that brought so much warmth, joy, and laughter into our days. Thank You for the moments we shared—the quiet ones, the playful ones, and the ordinary moments that became precious simply because he was there.

Thank You for the way Chip trusted, the way he loved without conditions, and the simple happiness he found in being cared for. Help us to hold onto those memories with gratitude rather than sorrow, remembering that love like his never truly leaves us.

As we miss him, bring peace to our hearts.
Remind us that every life You place in our care has purpose, even when the time feels far too short. Let Chip’s memory continue to soften us, slow us down, and remind us to cherish the small blessings we’re given.

We release him now with love, thankful for the time we had and comforted by the joy he brought. May his memory always be a gentle presence in our home and our hearts.

Amen.




 

Thursday, February 6, 2025

Into the Water by Paula Hawkins - A Review

This one was a wild ride. Hawkins flips between multiple points of view, which kept me guessing and added some real tension. There were twists and turns the whole way through, and I never knew what was coming next.

That said… sometimes it felt a bit overcomplicated. I would have loved a more straightforward telling of events, but honestly, the suspense, the dark secrets, and the creepy river made it worth it. Entertaining, engaging, and perfect if you loved The Girl on the Train.

Publisher’s Synopsis:
The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller The Girl on the Train returns with a gripping novel of psychological suspense.

A single mother is found dead at the bottom of a river that has long held dark secrets. Earlier in the summer, a teenage girl also met the same fate. These deaths stir the history of the river and uncover secrets long submerged.

Left behind is a lonely fifteen-year-old girl, parentless and friendless, now in the care of her mother’s sister—a woman who had vowed never to return to this place.

With the same intense writing and insight into human instincts that captivated readers worldwide in The Girl on the Train, Paula Hawkins delivers a twisting, urgent, and deeply satisfying thriller that explores the deceptive nature of memory and emotion.

★★★★☆

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Sunday, February 2, 2025

32 Ways to Make Someone Happy Today (Archives)

32 Ways to Make Someone Happy Today

August 11, 2008

Most of you already know this — I love Zen Habits. If you haven’t subscribed yet, you should. It’s one of those rare reads that gently reminds you to slow down and live with intention.

Below is a portion of an article from zenhabits.net. Nothing flashy. Just simple, everyday ways to make someone’s day better — and often, that’s all it takes.

Smile.
Help them carry something.
Send a thank-you email.
Call just to check in.
Pick them flowers.
Cook a nice meal.
Tell a joke and laugh together.
Clean something without being asked.
Write a love letter.
Give a cherished book.
Bake cookies.
Praise them publicly.
Thank them sincerely.
Listen — really listen.
Show up when needed.
Offer a hug.
Spend time together for fun.
Run an errand or do a chore.
Say “I love you.”
Help them move forward.
Be proud of them.
Babysit so they can rest.
House-sit while they’re away.
Buy movie tickets.
Put together a care package.
Bring coffee.
List what you love about them.
Leave anonymous thank-you notes.
Give a back rub (when appropriate).
Drop off lunch on a hard day.
Love fully and without reservation.
And finally — be happy yourself.

Sometimes the smallest gestures make the biggest difference.



Saturday, February 1, 2025

Warm Transfer by Laura Holtz - A Review

Warm Transfer tells the story of Tamsen Peel, a wife and mother living amidst Chicago’s wealthy elite, whose seemingly perfect life is marred by a controlling and emotionally abusive marriage. Once a powerful and successful advertising executive, Tamsen gave up her career to raise her children and now struggles with low self-esteem, manipulation, and doubt.

The book explores her journey of self-discovery as she faces difficult questions: Should she stay for the sake of her children? Is her relationship truly abusive? And most importantly, how can she reclaim her identity and sense of joy?

I enjoyed the story, Tamsen’s thought processes, and the realizations she reaches along the way. Holtz tackles a timely and important topic with sensitivity, and the metaphor of a “warm transfer”—helping others safely find their way—is beautifully woven into the narrative.

Not perfect, but thoughtful and engaging. Three stars.

(I received a copy of this title for review purposes, free of charge, from NetGalley and the publisher. This is my honest opinion.)

★★★☆☆

From my archives: May 30, 2018

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Saturday, November 2, 2024

Why God Matters by Karina Lumbert Fabian and Deacon Steven Lumbert- A Review

If you’re someone who’s been thinking about taking that next step in your spiritual journey this might be just the nudge you need. The authors share their own personal experiences and journeys toward faith, all while encouraging readers to explore what God means to them personally.

What I appreciated most is that the book doesn’t push any particular doctrine or opinion—it’s purely a collection of stories meant to inspire and uplift. It feels less like a lesson and more like a friendly conversation about faith, making it easy to reflect on your own beliefs without feeling pressured.

In short, it’s a gentle, thoughtful read for anyone curious about deepening their spiritual life.

Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

★★★★☆

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Friday, November 1, 2024

The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (Chronicles of Narnia) By CS Lewis - A Review

C.S. Lewis’ The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe is so much more than a children’s story—it’s a timeless adventure full of courage, wonder, and the eternal struggle between good and evil. Narnia leaps off the page with magical landscapes, talking animals, and characters you won’t forget.

The story reminds us that even when darkness feels overwhelming, good can—and will—prevail. Unity, sacrifice, and love make the impossible possible, perfectly embodied by Aslan, whose courage inspires all around him.

Thrilling, immersive, and full of heart, this classic is a must-read for anyone who believes in hope, bravery, and the power of doing what’s right. A story that will stay with you long after the last page.

★★★★★

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Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Just Be Silly

 Do something silly today. Seriously. For no reason at all.

The simple act of letting go and having fun — even for 30 seconds — can work wonders on your entire being. No planning. No permission. Just let go.

I raised six kids, and they will happily testify that I am extremely silly. Case in point: spontaneous, off-key singing at the absolute top of my lungs. Is it musical? No. Is it loud? Yes. Does it instantly raise the household silliness level? Also yes. Science probably supports this.

Silly games help too. Nothing fancy. Just a dash of imagination and a willingness to abandon dignity.

I tend to have a dark, dry sense of humor, but I’ve somehow been gifted with the ability to make people laugh. I consider it part of my life’s mission to catch someone completely off guard — stop them mid-stride, confuse them slightly, and then boom… laughter. Attitude shift achieved.

So whether it’s a mom of six skipping to the mailbox with her four-year-old (neighbors judging quietly), an awkward hopscotch attempt, or a sudden hand-slap challenge, it only takes a moment. And that smile? It has magical, forget-your-problems-for-a-minute powers.

Tonight, make a silly dinner. Watch a ridiculous movie. Play hide-and-seek. Capture the Flag (elite game, by the way). Have a scavenger hunt for the remote or gaming controller — because chaos is character-building.

Whatever it takes… just do it. Life is heavy enough. Add some silly.

Tuesday, October 1, 2024

Femininity is making a comeback

I’ve been reading an interesting book on relationships, and its foundation is all about embracing femininity—frills, lace, and all the details. It made me wonder: why have we drifted so far from the traditions of historical womanhood? These foundations existed for centuries—surely there was a reason.

Think about Gone With the Wind. Scarlett may have seemed rebellious, even “unfeminine” by her era’s standards, but by today’s measures, she was far more feminine than the average woman in the U.S. now.

When did we start trying to blend in with men instead of standing apart? Why do we want to be treated just like they are? I love my comfy jeans and a tee as much as anyone, but when I take the time to get dolled up—even small changes like a black ruffled blouse—it affects how I feel. Confident. Special. Noticed.

Case in point: I wore a frilly, feminine shirt on a outing and had so many compliments on it. I never would have expected it—but it made me think. Maybe leaning into simple expressions of femininity can quietly transform the way we feel about ourselves… and how others see us.