October 14 - Thankful for Progress

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 💗

Every October, we pause to honor survivors, remember those we have lost, support those currently fighting, and celebrate the incredible advancements that continue to change lives.

I am especially grateful for the progress made through research, medicine, early detection, and innovation. These advances have given hope to countless individuals and families facing a breast cancer diagnosis. They have transformed what was once a much more difficult journey into one with more treatment options, better outcomes, and brighter futures.

This cause is deeply personal to me. My mom faced a much more difficult battle than I did, and her experience reminds me just how far we have come. Because of the dedication of researchers, medical professionals, advocates, and survivors who have shared their stories, every year brings new breakthroughs and renewed hope.

My faith in God has also been an important part of my journey. Through the challenges, uncertainties, and fears that come with a cancer diagnosis, my faith gave me strength, comfort, and peace. It reminded me that I was never facing the journey alone and helped me hold on to hope even during difficult days.

Breast Cancer Awareness Month is more than wearing pink. It is about education, encouraging screenings, supporting loved ones, funding research, and continuing the fight until no family has to hear the words "you have cancer." It is also about lifting one another up through faith, prayer, compassion, and encouragement.

Today, I am thankful for the progress that has been made and hopeful for the discoveries still to come. If sharing our stories encourages even one person to schedule a screening, seek medical advice, or support someone going through treatment, then it matters.

To all the survivors, fighters, caregivers, families, healthcare professionals, and prayer warriors: your strength, resilience, compassion, and faith inspire us every day.

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Edge of Darkness by Kyla Stone - A Review

I really enjoyed the first couple of books, and I was hoping this one would finally start delivering some bigger answers. Instead, it felt like the story was spinning its wheels. Some of the same dangers, the same chase, and a lot of waiting for things to move forward in a meaningful way.

I still cared about the characters, which is what kept me reading, but by the end I felt more relieved to be finished than excited to pick up the next book. After three books, I wanted more payoff and more progress. Instead, I found myself ready for something completely different.

This wasn't a bad book, but it wasn't enough to keep me invested in the series. For me, this is where the journey ends.

★★★

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Easy Anti-Inflammatory Diet Air Fryer Cookbook: Clean and Quick Recipes to Fight Inflammation for Whole-Body Health by Julie Andrews - Now Released

Now Released

I really enjoyed Easy Anti-Inflammatory Diet Air Fryer Cookbook and thought it was a practical, beginner-friendly cookbook for anyone who wants healthier meals without giving up flavor or convenience. As someone who uses an air fryer often and appreciates simple recipes that still feel nourishing, this book felt very approachable and easy to work into everyday life.

I like that the cookbook starts with helpful information about anti-inflammatory eating, including foods that may help fight inflammation and foods that can make it worse. It gives enough background to be useful without feeling overwhelming, which makes it a good option for readers who are just getting started with this way of eating. I also appreciated the grocery-saving tips, the cooking charts, and the measurement conversions at the end because those are the kinds of extras I actually come back to when using a cookbook.

The recipes are organized into helpful sections like breakfast and brunch, snacks, plant-based mains, chicken and turkey, seafood, meats, vegetables and sides, and desserts. There is a nice variety here, from super simple ideas like sweet potato wedges, edamame with chili flakes, fajitas, and bruschetta to recipes that take a little more effort. I especially liked the sound of the seafood recipes, cinnamon apple chips, crispy chicken tenders, carrot cake cookies, and the dessert options. I also liked that some recipes bring in bold and spicy flavors instead of making healthy food feel plain or boring.

The air fryer focus is what makes this cookbook stand out. It takes familiar comfort foods and gives them a cleaner, lighter twist while still keeping that crispy texture that makes air fryer cooking so easy and satisfying. Most of the ingredients seem easy to find at a regular grocery store, and the instructions are clear enough for beginners while still useful for more experienced home cooks.

My main reason for giving this 4 stars instead of 5 is that I wish there were more photos throughout the cookbook. For cookbooks, I love being able to see what the finished recipe should look like, and the layout felt a little plain in places. I also noticed recipes placed in the wrong section, which could just be an early copy issue.

Overall, this is a solid, realistic, and useful cookbook for air fryer lovers, beginners, and anyone interested in adding more anti-inflammatory meals into their routine. It feels clean, quick, and doable, which is exactly what it promises. I’m looking forward to trying several of these recipes myself.

★★★★

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October 13 - Life After Cancer

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 💗

As I celebrate 20 years of survivorship, I am grateful for every day I've been given.

A cancer diagnosis changes your perspective in ways you never expect. It teaches you that life is precious and that even the smallest moments are gifts. There truly is life after cancer, and it can be a fulfilling, rewarding, and joy-filled life.

My faith in God has been a big part of that journey. During the difficult days, when I faced uncertainty, fear, and questions about the future, my faith gave me strength, comfort, and hope. I trusted that God was walking beside me through every challenge and carrying me when I felt I could not take another step.

Over the past 20 years, I have been blessed to experience so many milestones that once seemed uncertain. I've watched my children grow up, build lives of their own, get married, and welcome babies into the world. I've shared laughter with family and friends, celebrated holidays, made memories, and enjoyed countless ordinary moments that have become extraordinary simply because I was here to experience them.

Cancer taught me to appreciate the little things I once took for granted. A phone call from a loved one. A family gathering. A quiet morning. A sweet smile from a grandchild. These moments may seem small, but they are the blessings that make life so rich.

This month, I honor everyone whose life has been touched by breast cancer. I celebrate the survivors, remember those we've lost, support those currently fighting, and thank the researchers, doctors, nurses, caregivers, and prayer warriors who continue to make hope possible.

Twenty years later, my heart is full of gratitude. Every day is a gift, every milestone is a blessing, and every year reminds me just how precious life truly is. I thank God for His faithfulness, for the people who walked this journey with me, and for the countless blessings He has given me along the way.

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Edge of Madness by Kyla Stone - A Review

I enjoyed this one more than the first book. I felt more connected to the characters, and I was much more invested in what happened to them. The story kept moving, but it also took time to show how people were coping and adjusting to everything that had changed.

I especially liked that we finally got some answers and resolutions after the events of the first book. Not everything is wrapped up, but enough happens to make the story feel satisfying while still leaving me curious about what comes next. Overall, this was a stronger read for me than Edge of Collapse.

★★★★

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October 12 - Awareness Creates Change

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 

Every conversation matters.

Sometimes a simple conversation can make a life-changing difference. Sharing information about breast cancer helps raise awareness, encourages people to know their risk factors, recognize warning signs, and stay current with recommended screenings.

Many of us know someone whose life has been touched by breast cancer. By talking openly about our experiences, sharing resources, and encouraging one another to prioritize our health, we can help remove fear and uncertainty from the conversation.

As a survivor, I also believe faith plays an important role in the journey. During difficult times, faith can provide comfort, strength, and hope when the road ahead feels uncertain. Whether through prayer, encouragement, or simply knowing someone is thinking of you, those expressions of faith can make a world of difference.

Early detection saves lives. A reminder from a friend, a family member sharing their story, or a post that catches someone's attention could be the encouragement they need to schedule a mammogram or speak with their doctor. We may never know the impact our words have, but they matter.

This month, let's continue to educate, support, and uplift one another. Share information. Share hope. Share your story if you're comfortable doing so. Share your faith if it has strengthened your journey. You never know who may need to hear it.

Together, through awareness, education, research, early detection, and faith, we can make a difference.

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October 11 - The Meaning of Scars

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 

Scars tell stories.

To me, they represent strength, resilience, and the determination to keep moving forward. They are reminders of battles fought, challenges overcome, and the grace that carried me through some of life's most difficult moments.

As a breast cancer survivor, I don't see my scars as something to hide. I see them as evidence of perseverance, courage, and hope. They remind me of how far I've come and of the countless blessings I've received along the way.

There was a time when I hid my scars because I felt ashamed of them. I saw them as reminders of what I had been through and what cancer had taken from me. But over time, my perspective changed. Today, I see those scars differently. They tell a story of survival, strength, and a journey that I was blessed to overcome.

Most of all, my scars remind me of God's faithfulness. During the moments when I felt afraid, uncertain, or overwhelmed, my faith gave me strength. When I couldn't see what was ahead, I trusted that God was walking beside me, carrying me through each step of the journey.

Today, I am grateful for every scar, every lesson, and every day I've been given. What once seemed like a painful reminder has become a symbol of survival, faith, and the gift of a second chance at life.

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October 10 - Celebrating Survivors

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 

Today, I celebrate every survivor.

Whether you're one year out, ten years out, or thirty years out, your story matters, your journey matters, and your courage inspires others more than you may ever know.

As a 20-year breast cancer survivor, I understand how precious each year can be. I remember a time when I wasn't sure what the future would hold. Reaching this milestone is something I never take for granted.

Over the past 20 years, I have been blessed with so many moments that once seemed uncertain. I've watched my children grow up, get married, and build families of their own. I've welcomed grandchildren into the world, celebrated birthdays and holidays, and experienced countless ordinary days that became extraordinary simply because I was here to live them.

Survivorship is not just about the years behind us. It's about embracing the life we've been given and finding joy in the moments that matter most. Cancer taught me to appreciate things I once took for granted, a phone call from a loved one, a family gathering, a quiet morning, or a sweet smile from a grandchild.

Today, I honor the strength, resilience, and determination of every survivor. I know the fears, the challenges, the waiting, and the gratitude that can come with this journey. Thank you for sharing your stories, encouraging others, and reminding the world that there is hope beyond a diagnosis.

No matter where you are on your journey, take a moment to celebrate how far you've come. Every year is a gift, every milestone is a blessing, and every survivor story is a powerful reminder that hope endures.

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October 9 - Stronger Than I Knew

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 

There were moments during my breast cancer journey when I questioned how much strength I had left.

At the time, I was caring for a newborn and five other children who were home for summer vacation. Life was already busy, and cancer certainly didn't put the demands of motherhood on hold. There were diapers to change, meals to prepare, laundry to fold, appointments to manage, and six children who still needed their mom.

I was still working, too.

Some days, I honestly don't know how I managed it all. I would go to treatments and doctor's appointments, then come home and jump right back into caring for my family. There wasn't much time to stop and think about what I was facing because there were so many people depending on me.

There were moments when I was exhausted, overwhelmed, and afraid. There were days when I cried in private because I didn't want my children to see how scared I was. There were nights when I lay awake wondering what the future would hold and praying for the strength to face another day.

But through it all, I leaned on my faith in God.

When I felt weak, He gave me strength. When I felt afraid, He gave me peace. When I couldn't see what the future would hold, I trusted that He was walking beside me every step of the way. My faith carried me through some of the darkest moments and reminded me that I was never facing the battle alone.

Looking back 20 years later, I've learned something important: we are often stronger than we realize. At the time, I didn't feel strong. I was simply doing what needed to be done each day. Through God's grace, the love of family and friends, and a determination to keep going, I found a strength I never knew I had.

Today, I am grateful for every challenge I overcame and every blessing that followed. I've watched my children grow up, get married, and have children of their own. I've experienced milestones and moments that once seemed uncertain, and each one is a reminder of God's faithfulness and the gift of another day.

If there's one lesson I've learned, it's this: when you think you've reached your limit, you may discover a strength you never knew existed. Sometimes you take the next step simply because you have no other choice. Then one day, you look back and realize just how far God has carried you.

Edge of Collapse by Kyla Stone - A Review

This was a fun, fast-moving read that kept me interested from the very beginning. I really enjoyed the premise and liked following the characters as they tried to navigate a world that had suddenly changed overnight. There was always something happening, which made it easy to keep turning the pages.

A few parts didn't work quite as well for me as others, but l I had a good time with it. If you enjoy stories about survival, resilience, and people finding strength in difficult situations, this is an entertaining start to the series.

★★★½

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Reading for Enjoyment, Not the Numbers

I've never been much of a reading goal person. I read because I enjoy it, and I don't want it to feel like another task. If I'm not enjoying a book, I have no problem setting it aside and moving on.

That said, I set a goal of 125 books for 2026 and ended up reaching it much faster than I expected. As of today, I've read 156 books with 85 days still left in the year.

Lately, though, I've slowed down quite a bit, and I'm perfectly okay with that. The goal was fun, but the number was never the point. Reading has always been about enjoying the books, not racing through them. If I read 20 more this year, great. If I don't, that's fine too.

    Favorite Book so far this year: 

Bad Words by Rioghnach Robinson

Runners Up:  (In no particular order)

The Last to Drown by Noelle Ihli

A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara

Calamity Club by Kathryn Stockett

October 8 - Know Your Normal

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 

No one knows your body better than you.

Regular self-exams and paying attention to changes can be lifesaving. If something feels different, don't ignore it. Trust yourself and speak up.

As a breast cancer survivor, this message is deeply personal. When I was pregnant, I found a lump and brought it to my doctor's attention. At first, he believed it was related to a milk duct issue and not something to worry about. But I knew something wasn't right.

I spoke up again. And then a third time. Within just two weeks, the lump had grown to four times its original size. Only then did my doctor realize further testing was needed.

That experience taught me one of the most important lessons of my life: be your own advocate. You know your body better than anyone else. If something doesn't feel right, keep asking questions. Seek answers. Request additional testing if necessary. Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself.

My faith in God also carried me through that difficult season. When I was frightened and uncertain about what lay ahead, I found strength in prayer and comfort in knowing that God was with me every step of the journey. Faith gave me the courage to keep pushing for answers when I knew something wasn't right.

Early detection saved my life, and it has saved countless others. Awareness is important, screenings are important, but listening to your body is important, too.

This Breast Cancer Awareness Month, make your health a priority. Know your body, trust your instincts, lean on your faith, and never hesitate to advocate for yourself.

You are your own best advocate. 💗

A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara - A Revuew

A Little Life is not something I would normally reach for, but it ended up being one of the most beautifully written novels I’ve ever read. Hanya Yanagihara’s prose is stunning. Every sentence feels intentional, and her ability to capture emotion is remarkable. The writing is immersive, intimate, and powerful enough to stay with you long after you’ve closed the book.

This is an emotionally heavy story, and I absolutely recommend reading trigger warnings beforehand. That said, the depth of feeling is also what makes the book so impactful. Yanagihara doesn’t shy away from pain, but she writes it with care, patience, and a level of honesty that feels rare.

It’s also a long read, the kind that demands time and attention. I read it digitally and definitely wished for a paperback more than once. Still, the length allows the characters and relationships to unfold fully, making the emotional payoff feel earned.

While the story itself may not be something I’d revisit often, Yanagihara’s talent is undeniable. I’m eager to read more of her work, because her voice is one that deserves to be experienced, even when it’s difficult.

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October 7 - Wear Pink with Purpose

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 

Pink is more than a color.

It represents courage, hope, awareness, and the millions of people whose lives have been affected by breast cancer. It represents survivors, those currently fighting, the loved ones who stand beside them, and the memories of those we carry in our hearts.

For many of us, pink also represents faith. Faith during the difficult days. Faith when the future feels uncertain. Faith that gives us strength when we feel weak and hope when we need it most.

As a breast cancer survivor, pink took on a whole new meaning in my life. Quite honestly, right after my treatments, my children drew everything in pink, bought everything pink they could find, and decorated everything pink. It felt like pink was everywhere!

I'll admit, there were times when it became a little tiresome. 😊 But looking back, I realize those pink drawings, decorations, and gifts were expressions of love from children who wanted their mom to know they cared. What I remember most isn't the color. It's the support behind it.

Today, when I see pink, I'm reminded of that love, the people who stood by me, the faith that carried me through, and the blessings that followed.

So wear pink with purpose today. Wear it for awareness. Wear it for hope. Wear it for those still fighting. Wear it for the survivors. And wear it as a reminder that even the smallest acts of love and support can mean more than we ever realize.

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Cancer changed my life in ways I never expected.

Before cancer, life often felt like a race from one responsibility to the next. There were meals to cook, laundry to fold, bills to pay, and lots of children to care for. Like so many parents, I was focused on getting through each day and checking items off my to do list.

Cancer forced me to slow down and look at life differently.

It taught me that I have no idea what burdens other people may be carrying. It taught me that compassion matters. It taught me that some of life's greatest blessings are found in the ordinary moments we so often take for granted.

Most importantly, it taught me that every day is a gift.

Since my diagnosis, I have watched my children grow up, get married, and build families of their own. I have become a grandmother. I have celebrated birthdays, holidays, and milestones that once seemed uncertain. I have enjoyed countless ordinary days that now feel extraordinary simply because I was here to experience them.

My journey was not easy. It tested me physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually. But through every challenge, God remained faithful. He gave me strength when I felt weak, peace when I was afraid, and hope when I couldn't see what the future held.

Today, more than 20 years later, I remain grateful. Grateful for my family. Grateful for the doctors, nurses, and caregivers who cared for me. Grateful for the people who prayed for me, encouraged me, and walked beside me. And grateful for every day I've been given.

If there is one thing I hope others take away from my story, it is this: know your body, trust your instincts, and advocate for yourself. When I knew something wasn't right, I kept asking questions. That decision may have saved my life.

Early detection matters. Self exams matter. Mammograms matter.

And life is far too precious to take for granted.

5 Minutes with Every Book of the Bible: Old Testament - Now Released

Now Released 

This is such a meaningful and incredibly approachable 5 star read for me. I went into this hoping for something that would help break down the Old Testament in a simple, manageable way—and it absolutely delivered, and then some.

It makes Scripture feel accessible. Each section is short enough to fit into even the busiest day, but still rich enough to walk away with something to reflect on. It really helps you build a steady, consistent habit of spending time in the Word without feeling overwhelmed.

The short intros you usually find at the beginning of books in many Bibles are helpful, but having a resource like this that brings everything together in one concise, focused format makes it so much more useful and intentional. Each book includes quick facts, a timeline, an outline, key verses (which were my favorite), and clear life lessons. That combination gave me a better overall understanding while still keeping it simple and easy to follow.

The structure is another highlight. Moving through each book in small, digestible sections makes it easier to grasp the bigger picture without losing the details. It provides just enough context and insight to deepen understanding while still leaving room for personal reflection and connection.

I also really appreciated how versatile this is. Whether you’re new to the Old Testament or have read it many times, this works beautifully as a daily devotional, a study companion, or even a gentle way to get back into Scripture.

The tone throughout is warm, encouraging, and never overwhelming. It feels like an invitation rather than a lesson, which made me actually look forward to sitting down with it each day.

Overall, this is a thoughtfully designed, practical, and encouraging guide that makes spending time in the Old Testament feel both doable and meaningful. It’s one I will definitely come back to again. I am looking forward to the New Testament title. 

★★★★★

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the advance copy. All opinions are my own.

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October 6 - A Family Story of Survival

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 💗

Breast cancer has touched two generations of my family.

I am a 20-year survivor, and my mom is a 30-year survivor. Together, our journey is a powerful reminder of how far we've come in the fight against breast cancer and why awareness remains so important.

Our experiences were different, but we share a deep appreciation for the advances in research, treatment, and early detection that have helped countless women live longer, healthier lives. We know firsthand that a diagnosis is not the end of the story. There is hope, there is strength, and there is life beyond cancer.

Faith has also been an important part of our story. Through the uncertainties, fears, and challenges that come with a cancer diagnosis, we found comfort in trusting God and leaning on His strength. There were days when the road seemed difficult, but our faith reminded us that we were never walking it alone. God's grace carried us through the hard moments and filled our hearts with hope for the future.

Looking back, I am grateful for every screening, every medical breakthrough, and every healthcare professional who has dedicated their life to helping patients and families navigate this journey. Those efforts have given my mom and me years we might not otherwise have had, years filled with family, milestones, memories, and countless blessings.

This Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I encourage everyone to prioritize their health, schedule recommended screenings and remind the people they love to do the same. Awareness, screenings, and early detection truly save lives.

My mom's 30 years and my 20 years of survivorship are living proof. More importantly, they are a testament to God's faithfulness, the power of perseverance, and the blessing of never giving up hope. We are grateful for every day and thankful for the opportunity to share a message of hope with others who may be walking a similar path.

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Bad Words by Rioghnach Robinson - Now Released

It's Out!!  Now Released.

This is officially one of my top favorite reads of all time!

I loved this book. Truly loved it. Clear‑the‑schedule, just‑one‑more‑chapter‑that‑turns‑into‑the‑last‑chapter loved it. An easy five stars and exactly the kind of read that pulls you straight out of a reading slump.

The premise hooked me immediately. Parker Navarro is an author still stinging from a brutal review written years ago by Selina Chan, a high‑profile literary critic. When she’s assigned to review his next book, their long‑standing tension erupts publicly, goes viral, and suddenly benefits both his sales and her publication’s traffic. Messy. Complicated. Completely irresistible.

This book stands out because it’s more than banter and chemistry—though it delivers both in spades. It explores the publishing world, criticism culture, and online discourse in a way that feels sharp, current, and grounded. The push and pull between creating and critiquing, and how quickly conflict becomes spectacle, is handled with real insight and heart.

Selina and Parker genuinely clash, and for reasons that make sense. No flimsy misunderstandings. No dragged‑out drama. Every shift in their dynamic feels earned, which makes the enemies‑to‑lovers arc deeply satisfying. The romance builds naturally and lands with intensity, tenderness, and true emotional payoff.

The editing deserves special mention. The pacing is tight, the dialogue snaps, and the story flows so smoothly it’s effortless to stay immersed. It’s fast‑paced without rushing, smart without trying too hard, and emotional without losing the fun.

By the final pages, I was fully invested and already thinking about who I needed to tell. Rioghnach Robinson is officially a new favorite author, and I can’t wait to read what she writes next.

If you love sharp dialogue, publishing‑world drama, and romance that actually earns its payoff, do not skip this one.

Huge thank you to NetGalley for the advance copy. This review reflects my honest opinion.

★★★★★

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October 5 Cancer - Changed Me

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 💗

People often ask whether cancer changes you.

The answer is yes.

It changes how you see life, what you value, and how deeply you appreciate each moment. Twenty years later, the lessons remain with me.

When I was diagnosed, I was pregnant, caring for five other children, working full-time, and trying to keep life moving forward. There were days when I didn't know how I would make it through the next hour, much less the next week. Yet through every challenge, my faith in God sustained me. When I felt afraid, I prayed. When I felt weak, I leaned on Him for strength. When I couldn't see the future, I trusted that He could.

Thirteen Ways Cancer Changed Everything

1. Exhaustion. Not ordinary tiredness, but a deep, constant fatigue that settles into your bones and does not lift.

2. Changes in Appearance. Hair loss. Pale skin. Catching my reflection and barely recognizing myself, along with comments from others that landed harder than they realized.

3. Surgeries and Recovery. Physical discomfort layered with emotional weight, and the ongoing weariness of medical procedures.

4. Emotional Whiplash. Sudden highs and lows with no warning, learning to hold on and keep going anyway.

5. Motherhood on Overdrive. Six children, including a newborn. Yes, I was pregnant when I was diagnosed.

6. Financial Strain. Medical bills arrive regardless of effort, determination, or circumstance.

1. Sudden Hormonal Changes. Early menopause brought hot flashes, sleepless nights, and challenges I wasn't prepared for.

2. Lingering Sensory Memories. Certain smells and experiences become etched into memory long after treatment ends.

3. Restless Nights. Vivid, horrific dreams that made rest difficult and mornings heavier.

4. Daily Responsibilities. Cooking, working, and caring for a family even on days when strength and appetite were limited.

5. No Pause Button. School mornings still came early. Cancer didn't excuse the bus schedule.

6. Unhelpful Comfort. Conversations meant to connect but instead carried fear or loss that was hard to hold.

7. A New Reality. Life altered in lasting ways, medically, emotionally, and on paper.

But cancer also gave me gifts I never expected.

Thirteen Gifts I Didn't Expect

1. A Deeper Gratitude for Life. Not casual appreciation, but intentional and fierce awareness.

2. Greater Patience. Still human, still imperfect, but more understanding than before.

3. Less Judgment. Because everyone is carrying something unseen.

4. Survivor Connection. A quiet bond with others who understand without explanation.

5. Finding Small Wins. Quick showers and simple routines that became unexpected blessings.

6. A Voice for Awareness. Speaking openly about self-exams and early detection because they truly matter.

7. Proven Strength. Not imagined, not theoretical, earned.

8. Clarity About People. Knowing who shows up, and who doesn't, brought painful honesty and unexpected peace.

9. Faith Renewed. Cancer deepened my relationship with God. Through the darkest moments, He gave me comfort, peace, hope, and the courage to keep moving forward. I learned to trust Him in ways I never had before.

10. My Youngest Child. A healthy, beautiful sixth blessing born during an unimaginable season.

11. A Story to Share. One shaped by hardship, faith, perseverance, and resilience.

12. Unexpected Joy. Even pink found its place.

13. Encouragement to Offer. Sitting with others and saying, sincerely, You're not alone. You're stronger than you think. And God is with you every step of the way.

Twenty years later, I would never have chosen cancer, but I am grateful for the lessons it taught me, the perspective it gave me, and the faith it strengthened. Every day is a gift. Every milestone is a blessing. And every year reminds me just how faithful God has been.

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October 4 - Celebrating Caregivers

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 💗

Behind every survivor is a team of people who refused to give up.

Today, I celebrate the caregivers, family members, friends, nurses, doctors, and prayer warriors who walk beside those facing cancer. A cancer journey is never traveled alone. It is strengthened by the hands that hold us up, the shoulders we lean on, the medical professionals who provide exceptional care, and the loved ones who offer encouragement when we need it most.

As a survivor, I know how much these acts of kindness matter. The phone calls, prayers, appointments, meals, hugs, words of encouragement, and quiet moments of support can make all the difference during the most challenging times. What may seem like a small gesture can provide hope, comfort, and strength when it is needed most.

My faith in God was also a source of strength throughout my journey. During moments of fear and uncertainty, I found comfort in prayer and peace in knowing I was never walking the road alone. God's presence, along with the love and support of those around me, carried me through days when I felt weak and reminded me to keep moving forward with hope.

Cancer affects more than the person receiving the diagnosis. It touches families, friends, and entire communities. Yet time and time again, people come together to lift one another up, demonstrating the power of compassion, faith, and love. Those acts of kindness reflect the very best of humanity and remind us that even in difficult seasons, we are surrounded by hope.

This Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I extend my heartfelt gratitude to all those who stand beside patients and survivors every step of the way. Your dedication, kindness, unwavering support, and faithful prayers make a difference every single day, often in ways you may never fully realize.

To every caregiver, family member, friend, nurse, doctor, and prayer warrior: thank you. You are among the heroes of every survivor's story, and I thank God for people like you.

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October 3 - Make the Appointment

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 💗

A mammogram takes only minutes. The peace of mind can last a lifetime.

If you've been putting off scheduling your annual screening, let today be the day you make that call. We all lead busy lives, and it's easy to place our own health at the bottom of the list. But taking a few minutes for a screening could make all the difference.

As a breast cancer survivor, I know firsthand the power of early detection. It saved my life and has saved countless others. Finding breast cancer early often means more treatment options, better outcomes, and more precious time with the people we love.

This month, I encourage you to make your health a priority. Schedule your mammogram, remind a friend or family member to schedule theirs, and help spread awareness. A simple conversation or gentle reminder could have a life-changing impact.

Taking care of yourself is one of the greatest gifts you can give to those who love you.

💗 Early detection matters. Screening matters. You matter. Early detection gave me that gift, and it could do the same for someone you love.

October 2 - A Gift Called Today

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month 

As a 20-year breast cancer survivor, I've learned that every day is a gift.

A cancer diagnosis has a way of changing your perspective. It teaches you to slow down, appreciate the present, and find joy in the moments that might otherwise go unnoticed. Over the years, I've come to realize that the ordinary moments are often the most precious.

A quiet morning with a cup of coffee. A phone call from a loved one. A beautiful sunset at the end of the day. Laughter shared with friends. Time spent with family. These simple blessings have become some of life's greatest treasures.

My faith in God has made those moments even more meaningful. During the challenges, uncertainties, and fears that came with a cancer diagnosis, my faith gave me strength, comfort, and hope. It reminded me to trust God's plan, cherish each day, and find peace even when I didn't know what the future would hold.

Twenty years later, my heart is full of gratitude for the experiences, relationships, and memories that have filled my life. I've learned that happiness isn't always found in the big milestones. Often, it's found in the everyday moments that remind us how fortunate we are to be here. I see God's blessings in those moments every single day.

This Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I celebrate survivorship, honor those who are no longer with us, support those currently facing their own journey, and give thanks to God for every day I've been given.

Today, I'm simply grateful. 💗

The Art of Mingling, Fourth Edition by Jeanne Martinet - Now Released

Publish Date: October 6, 2026

As a mom of five and a former pastor, I have spent a good portion of my life in rooms full of people. Church gatherings, school events, community functions, casual parties, and everything in between. Even with all that experience, I know how easy it is to feel socially worn down, out of practice, or just plain tired of small talk. I approached this book hoping for encouragement, practical kindness, or at least respectful guidance for navigating social spaces when energy and authenticity matter.

Unfortunately, this book delivered the opposite.

I was immediately put off by the author’s repeated suggestions to single out “wallflowers,” “party misfits,” and those deemed “socially challenged” as practice tools for improving one’s mingling skills. This framing is not only unkind, it is demeaning. The entire “Practice Your Mingle on a Wallflower” section reads as though people exist merely as social props for someone else’s self-improvement. That alone should have been removed in prior editions.

It only went downhill from there. The section on FIBBING suggests that you cannot be a good "mingler" unless you are willing to lie a little. That is a firm no for me. Encouraging dishonesty as a social lubricant undermines trust and authenticity. The so-called FLATTERY Entree is equally troubling, promoting insincere praise as a tactic rather than genuine interest. Add to that the casual reference to “repugnant occupations,” and the tone becomes outright offensive.

By the 20 percent mark, I had already encountered more than eight statements or concepts that felt condescending, manipulative, or morally tone-deaf. This book is marketed as self-help, but it reads far more like a philanthropic handbook for social climbers, one that prioritizes performance over people and strategy over sincerity.

Social skills do not need to be taught at the expense of compassion. Mingling does not require belittling others, lying, or treating human beings as practice exercises. For readers looking for respectful, thoughtful, and ethical social guidance, this book misses the mark entirely.

Is this a satire or is this or is this title just meant to be offensive?

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💗 20 Years for Me. 30 Years for My Mom. A Lifetime of Gratitude. 💗

My mom and I are both living proof that early detection and advances in treatment save lives.

This month, I encourage everyone to take a moment and prioritize their health. Schedule your annual mammogram, perform regular self-exams, and pay attention to any changes in your body. Knowing your body and recognizing the signs can make all the difference.

Please also remind the people you love to do the same. Early detection saves lives, and a simple screening could be the reason someone gets many more years with their family and friends.

Let's honor survivors, remember those we've lost, support those currently fighting, and continue spreading awareness.

5-Minute Aesop's Fables by Ilanit Oliver - Now Released

Now Released

As a mom of five and now a grandma, I’ve read my fair share of children’s books over the years, and this one really feels special. It’s such a sweet and easy win, especially on those busy days when you still want to slow down and share a meaningful moment with your kids or grandkids. I love that each story truly only takes a few minutes, which makes it perfect for bedtime or even just a quick cuddle and read during the day.

The stories are simple and clear, but they still carry those classic lessons we all grew up with from Aesop. I appreciate how natural it feels when those messages come through. It never feels heavy or like you’re lecturing, just gentle reminders about kindness, honesty, and making good choices.

Honestly, this is one of those books I know I’d keep close by and reach for again and again, whether I’m reading to my own children or my grandbabies. It’s comforting, easy, and full of heart.

Perfect for families, classrooms, or anyone who loves short, thoughtful stories.

★★★★★

I received a copy of this book from NetGalley. This is an honest review.

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