In late 2006, while pregnant with my fifth child, a small lump was discovered in my breast. I brought it to my doctor’s attention immediately. Because I was pregnant, it was assumed to be a normal change. Even with a family history of breast cancer, I was reassured and advised to “watch it.”
Within weeks, the lump grew rapidly. After multiple visits, an ultrasound and mammogram were finally ordered, followed by a biopsy. The diagnosis came quickly after that: invasive ductal carcinoma, an aggressive form of breast cancer that required immediate treatment.
Surgery followed, and because I was pregnant, treatment options were limited. Thankfully, the surgery showed clear margins and no lymph node involvement. After a multidisciplinary team reviewed my case, it was decided that further treatment would begin after delivery.
Just days after welcoming my daughter, I began chemotherapy. The following months were physically and emotionally exhausting. Chemotherapy was followed by several weeks of radiation. I later began long-term hormonal therapy and additional preventative treatment to reduce the chance of recurrence.
Cancer didn’t just affect my body—it affected every part of life. My family, especially my children, carried their own quiet fears. Financial strain became another heavy burden, and making medical decisions without stable insurance added immense stress.
Through it all, cancer changed how I see life. It taught me that we never truly know the battles others are facing. It reminded me that everyday moments matter and that time is something none of us should take for granted.
Today, I am grateful. As far as I know, I am cancer-free. I am thankful for the support I received and for the strength I found when I needed it most.
One in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer. When it’s found early, the five-year survival rate in the U.S. is approximately 98%. Early detection saves lives.
No matter your age: • Perform a monthly breast self-exam
• Have a yearly clinical breast exam
• Get regular mammograms as recommended
If something doesn’t feel right, advocate for yourself. If a concern is dismissed, seek another opinion. You know your body better than anyone.
Early detection is essential. Taking a few minutes each month could literally save your life.
