What to Do When I'm Gone: A Mother's Wisdom to Her Daughter by Suzy Hopkins - A Review

This was a mixed read for me. The premise—a mother leaving advice for her daughter after she’s gone—is deeply meaningful, and that love comes through on every page.

The format stands out too. It reads almost like a guide for life after loss, moving from the first few days forward, with advice, recipes, and everyday reminders woven in. Some moments felt especially sweet and comforting, especially the gentle push to care for yourself and keep going one day at a time.

I also liked the illustrations. They add personality, make the book feel more intimate, and give the heavier subject matter a lighter touch.

That said, it never goes very deep, and I felt that. I kept wanting something rawer and more emotionally layered. Parts also felt repetitive, since the advice stays in a very similar tone throughout.

Overall, I get why this resonates with so many readers, especially anyone looking for something gentle and comforting. For me, it was a nice read, but not one that truly lingered.

★★

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