Friday, April 30, 2010

Just Be Silly


Do something silly today. Seriously. For no reason at all.
The simple act of letting go and having fun — even for 30 seconds — can work wonders on your entire being. No planning. No permission. Just let go.

I have six kids, and they will happily testify that I am extremely silly. Case in point: spontaneous, off-key singing at the absolute top of my lungs. Is it musical? No. Is it loud? Yes. Does it instantly raise the household silliness level? Also yes. Science probably supports this.

Silly games help too. Nothing fancy. Just a dash of imagination and a willingness to abandon dignity.

I tend to have a dark, dry sense of humor, but I’ve somehow been gifted with the ability to make people laugh. I consider it part of my life’s mission to catch someone completely off guard — stop them mid-stride, confuse them slightly, and then boom… laughter. Attitude shift achieved.

So whether it’s a 42-year-old mom of six skipping to the mailbox with her four-year-old (neighbors judging quietly), an awkward hopscotch attempt, or a sudden hand-slap challenge, it only takes a moment. And that smile? It has magical, forget-your-problems-for-a-minute powers.

Tonight, make a silly dinner. Watch a ridiculous movie. Play hide-and-seek. Capture the Flag (elite game, by the way). Have a scavenger hunt for the remote or gaming controller — because chaos is character-building.

Whatever it takes… just do it. Life is heavy enough. Add some silly.

4 comments:

  1. Tammy..Ladonna Pic does that to me 2...I love it!!!!

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  2. When your kids get to my kids' age, they roll their eyes at you and say "oh mom". Enjoy them NOW~

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  3. Hey Tammy! Yes I remember you. haha I saw your comment this week but haven't had the chance to reply. I am going full time to Nursing School right now and finals are around the corner. It's so nice to see you back. I looked and looked for you when you left. I was so sad when you weren't around anymore so it's really great to see you back. I agree too. Being silly is a wonderful thing.

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